Wednesday, 19 August 2015

Alec Baldwin gives thanks for his kids' many nannies

by

Carolyn Robertson

posted in Celebrities

Busy dad-of-two took to Instagram today to share a heartfelt message of thanks to the women who make it all possible.

Sharing an adorable shot of his daughter Carmen, who turns 3 next week, snuggling on her nanny's shoulder while in the background another woman tends to baby brother Rafael in the stroller, Alec wrote: "I am forever indebted to the women who have helped care for our children. Muchos gracias Lizzy, Sandra, Zena, Lisa and Avril."

How sweet!

Of course, it didn't take long for some of the 30 Rock actor's Instagram followers to do the math: Does that mean Alec and his wife Hilaria have FIVE caregivers for two children?

Several of them pointed out this equation in the comments, with one adding, "Why don't you [and your] wife just take care of [your] own kids without help? Why do you need help while your there?"

Others, though, were far more understanding - and honest - about it. After all, they pointed out, the nannies are probably on rotation, so it's not like they have five caregivers on the clock around the clock. Even if they did, some noted, what's the harm so long as the kids are well cared for?

"If money wasn't an object, I would have the same," admitted one fan. "More love for
the babies."

Alec Baldwin and wife, Hilaria and baby Carmen out and about in Cambridge, Britain - 10 Oct 2014

This isn't the first time celebrities have opened up about having help with the kids. Some parents, like Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis, have refused to hire even one nanny, reasoning, “We just want to know our kid. We want to be the people that know what to do when the baby’s crying to make the baby not cry anymore. I think the only way to do that is by being the one who’s there.”

Others have been completely forthright about their reliance on caretakers. Like mom-of-two Amy Poehler, who very memorably paid tribute to her sons' nannies during an award acceptance speech a few years ago. "On behalf of every sister and mother and person who stands in your kitchen and helps you love your child, I say thank you and I celebrate you tonight."

I think it's easy - and somewhat tempting - to jump all over famous folks who seem to always have nannies in tow. Honestly, though, who among us doesn't rely on help every once in a while? My own mom has been a constant presence in my children's lives, to the point where I can't really imagine raising them without her around. I'm forever grateful, and I think my girls are only better off for it.

I do think it's vital that a parent loves, knows and understands his own child, and that the child feels safe and comfortable going to mom or dad for help and reassurance. Beyond that, though, I'm a firm believer that it takes a village. If that village happens to include professional caregivers who are receiving a paycheck, who am I to judge?

What do you think? And if you could afford it, would you hire a nanny (or five)?

Photo: PR Photos, Photograp/REX Shutterstock

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